12 Acts of Courage to Change Meetings for Good

Last week I received a fresh shipment of my book, This Meeting Sux. 12 Acts of Courage to Change Meetings for Good. This book answers a call I received several years ago to come to the aid of meeting participants trapped in meetings that aren’t working. In this week’s article, 12 Acts of Courage to [...]

Facilitating Interim Small Groups

How often have you been invited to be part of a group assembled at a conference, planning session or workshop to explore some small group issue? Often these groups are asked to do their work without an assigned facilitator. How often have you watched groups like this struggle when no one steps in or knows [...]

Fine Points of Sushi Preparation and Consumption

This week we talk about facilitating challenging “egos” in an article submitted by my friend and colleague, Dr. Eileen Dowse. In Fine Points of Sushi Preparation and Consumption, she reviews the various manifestations of ego, a story of a typical problem ego encounter, and tips for working with big egos in healthy ways. Click here [...]

Success in Needs Assessment Interviews

How often has a company approached you with absolute certainty about the nature of their problem and what needs to be done to fix it? There is often quite a difference between what people in organizations think they need and what they really need. They’re often too much a part of the dynamic to objectively [...]

Help Participants Participate

As facilitators and trainers used to participating in groups from the front of the room, we sometimes assume that our participants know what it means to fully participate. This may not be the true. Participants’ good intentions to remain fully involved and engaged may dim as a long workshop or training progresses. One of the [...]

Operating from Center as a Facilitator

This week’s article, Operating from Center as a Facilitator was submitted by Thomas Crum, one of my favorite teachers and authors on centering and the use of conflict as a constructive catalyst for living an authentic and artful life. Everything we do in life, particularly the challenging discipline of facilitation, is improved when we operate [...]

Facilitating Technology Dynamic: 7 Habits of Highly Effective Email Facilitation

The character of groups and what they do together is reflected in every avenue of human endeavor especially in our technology. Given that technology is such a big part of our lives today, I wanted to focus this article on facilitation in online communication, with email is particular. In this weeks article, Facilitating Technology Dynamic: [...]

I know What You Want, But Why?

One of the biggest blind spots that block our communication…hold it…scratch that. I mean, one of the biggest deaf spots, sounds more accurate than blind spot for reasons which will become apparent momentarily, that keep people from understanding each other, is the distinction between interests and positions. In this week’s article, I know What You [...]

Rant for a Positive Meeting

It’s hard to believe that this past month of May marks ten years that I’ve been publishing the MFJ ezine. The truth is that I forgot about this anniversary until just a few days ago and thought it worthy of mention. Thank you all for your support along the way! This week’s article Rant for [...]

How Did We Get Here?

I’ve been watching the news lately a little more than usual and had an impulse to explore an obvious pattern I see that relates to our work with groups. It has to do with people arguing their solutions to problems with little knowledge of the source of these problems. In this week’s article, How Did [...]

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